He Said She Said - The Real Problem

http://jezebel.com/5358024/ask-men-thinks-theyre-too-good-for-you-ladies


Ok, hereeeee's the probelm.

Some are right, some are wrong, but as always, the male point of view is completely misinterpreted....


That's right ladies, as always, its a catch 22. We don't want you to be a terrible lay, but at the same time, NO, you can't be Ms. EXPERIENCE in bed. Sorry, the idea that you've had PLENTY of practice, isn't appealing. The Truth? Never easy to swallow gals (my apologies for the metaphor). You are told a rookie in bed makes a guy feel bored or else that claiming your right to feel sexually empowered is somehow nature's gift to you and that men should learn to deal with it. Hey. If he's slept around, he's more likely to have an STD, but do you want a guy who fumbles around and doesn't know what to do? NO damn way. That's your catch 22. Ours? We want a rookie. We like to delude ourselves that you only sleep with guys you care deeply for and that we're that special guy. Why? Because we like to think you are better than us. That's right, ladies, we hold you on a pedestal. Men are base, animal creatures. We know this. We have raw, animal insticts. You do too, but since we hate our own instrints - at least partially - we like to pretend you are holier than thou. We like to believe in something better than ourselves. And you are that thing. You let us down, of course. Because you've been convinced that's its somehow good for you, or else you're "right," but the fact of the matter is that knowing you've screwed plenty of men won't elevate you in our esteem. If you've screwed so many other guys, well then why wouldn't you stop after screwing us? Oh, suddenly you're emotionally involved? Riiight - Just like you told those other 'special' men? No. We're no better. But we're men. We accept we're base, disgusting pigs. We really quite hate it. That's why we're trying to marry you. We want to be better and rely on real, actual, human feeling and emotion and not the size of someone's boobs as that will change your mind every other day and THAT'S NO WAY TO LIVE. Duh. Look it up.